“Absalom, David’s son, had a beautiful sister, Tamar. After a time Amnon, David’s son, loved her. And Amnon was so tormented that he made himself ill because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible to Amnon to do anything to her. But Amnon had a friend Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David’s brother. Jonadab was a very crafty man. He said to him, ‘O son of the king, why are you so haggard morning after morning? Will you not tell me?’ Amnon said to him, ‘I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.‘ Jonadab said, ‘Lie down on your bed and pretend to be ill. And when your father comes to see you, say to him, “Let my sister Tamar come and give me bread to eat, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.“‘ So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill. And when the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and make a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat from her hand.’
“Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, ‘Go to your brother Amnon’s house and prepare food for him.'” 2 Samuel 13:1-7
This disturbing account of several of David’s children displays the grievous fallout from unchecked sin. Like his father, Amnon struggled with lust, and sin begat sin. His cousin Jonadab was ‘very crafty,’ and used this skill to connive for evil that led to irreversible hurt and destruction: entrapment, rape, hatred, abandonment, discord, murder, separation. Passion and creativity that could have been channeled for good, but were used for selfish means, did not end well. All but the innocent Tamar were culpable, and even she suffered lasting consequences. (2 Samuel 11:1-5,14; 13:8-29,34-38)

God plants in man many a desire and talent. Each has certain abilities and proclivities, unique ways our minds work, emotions get stirred, ambition is inspired, and plans are accomplished. We all make many choices every day how we implement impulses and employ our gifts.
Any action answers what, how, why, and for whom, whether consciously or unconsciously. If we allow unharnessed feelings to drive, accountability is evaded, consequences are ignored, and bad habits are formed. We act without thought only to satisfy an urge, with neither checks nor consideration of motive nor moral compass. We risk setting in motion senseless harm. But when we offer ourselves for God’s use, results build His church, fulfill our purpose, and honor Him. (1 Corinthians 14:12; 2 Corinthians 9:6-7)
Where has ambition plowed over wisdom or reason, lust ravaged energy to restrain, greed blinded to consequences? Would we check motives for decisions we make, and bring compulsions under God’s measured control? How does my personal management align with God’s character and will? When will I humbly bring my passions, my careless, thoughtless, impulsive acts, under divine control?
What special skills has the Lord entrusted to me, uniquely enabling me to contribute in work, community, and church? What use of resources, devices, and time need review? Am I impetuous, or intent on offering body and mind to please Him? (Psalm 19:13-14; 90:17; Romans 12:1–2)
Lord God, may I put to use Your good and perfect gifts to Your ends and glory.









